- Couple counseling; is the counseling just for both of them, or does it take one person's perspective?
- is depicting wounds, trauma, dark, deviant subjects as an artist's focused theme problematic? Maybe exploitative to the person who suffered? Or is this kind of art championing or glorifying the dark or breeding some yet-to-shown malicious deed. Is drawn by dark things a problematic trait? (all comes to the spectrum talk)
- (Jesus's suffer theme, Goya's work) Ref THE HOUSE THAT JACK BUILT, can a serial killer's photographs using his victims as set props, subject, or model be considered as art? Can he be seen as an artist in the case? Where the boundary of art in this?
- dudes attribute your behavior to what you did or what you experienced in the past..... eyes rolled and dropped. care or manipulation or guilt you to admit things?

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